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Anti-bullying teens pledge to 'be an ally’

Saturday, October 30, 2010
(Updated 3:05 am)

GREENSBORO — Students: If a classmate hands you a blue and gold pledge card asking you to “be an ally, not a bystander,” it’s because he or she wants you to help prevent and report bullying in Guilford County schools.

The pledge cards are just one strategy local high school students will use this year to make schools more inclusive of classmates with different backgrounds.

“Our responsibility is to find as many ways as possible to demonstrate positive behavior and give people an opportunity to engage in fighting discrimination and bullying,” said Susan Feit, director of the National Conference for Community and Justice of the Piedmont Triad.

Last week, the conference hosted an anti-bullying workshop for more than 60 teenagers who attended the week-long Anytown summer camp over the past two years.

Anytown is the conference’s signature program which seeks to create bonds of friendship and respect across different races, religions and socioeconomic groups.

NCCJ started offering anti-bullying workshops to student “ambassadors” in 2007 as a way to encourage action in the schools.

“These kids could be going to the movies,” Feit said. “They could be out playing basketball or listening to music with their friends. Dozens of students have decided that they want to get together and decide how to fight bigotry, racism and discrimination.”

The conference’s work is especially relevant during a time of national attention on cyberbullying and intimidation of homosexual students. Participants in Wednesday’s workshop read the stories of 10 bullied students from across the U.S. who committed suicide this year.

The students followed the exercise with discussions of what they would do in their schools.

Students from Andrews said they want to start a peer mediation program. Representatives from Western Guilford suggested scheduling multicultural nights or a Bullying Prevention Week.

Senior Amber Lowe said she would like Dudley’s predominantly black student population to mingle better with minority groups, especially at lunch.

“I think it is a big issue because there are people of other races who are intimidated to walk into the cafeteria because there is a black side and then other ethnicities on the other (side),” Lowe said.

Junior Ceara Cannon said she and other students would like to create a diversity club at Weaver Academy to complement the work being done through the school’s Gay-Straight Alliance.

Cannon said she faces stereotypes as an African American, even though she applied to Weaver to escape the bullying she expected at her district high school. For example, some fellow students expect her to like dancing even though she has other interests, she said.

“My middle-school experience was completely ruined and I don’t want that to carry over to high school,” said Cannon, who attended Mendenhall Middle. “Even at Weaver there’s so many stereotypical issues.”

Contact Morgan Josey Glover at 373-7078, or morgan.josey@news-record.com

 

Accompanying Photos

Margaret Baxter (News & Record)

SIGN THE PLEDGE

People can take a stand against bullying in schools by signing an online pledge through the National Conference for Community and Justice of the Piedmont Triad. Access the pledge at

www.nccjtriad.org/resolution/bullyingpledge.php

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chieftp

October 30, 2010 - 6:43 pm EDT

I bet our enemies around the world like the fact that we've made our people as soft as a marshmallow. it will make it a lot easier for them to conquer us when they decide we have been sufficiently weakened to the point where we won't fight back.

jorrell245

October 31, 2010 - 12:17 am EDT

In Junior High, I was relentlessly abused by two bullies. One day before "graduation", one of them poured on the coals and tried to beat the crap out of me after throwing trash at me in the locker room. That was enough, I snapped, for the first time I fought back and physically caused him significant pain, after the altercation was over, I received applause from other students in the locker room. At that point, I had enough of the abuse and that abusive moron that was after me apologized and never bothered me again, yes, I hurt him bad, he needed help to be removed from a locker.

I am not proud of what I did, but it was necessary to stop the stupidity of one disturbed teen. He tried to befriend me in High School but I rejected his attempts. He wound up being the unwanted.

The above feels like "modern" politics, I guess that if we stand up to what we believe, the bullies will fail and bow down!

wiseowl19

October 31, 2010 - 6:14 am EDT

Wait a second..
Did I hear this child say that because other students think she can dance...she considers that bullying???
Someone has put that in her head!!
I drive a truck..so what do they consider me???
As usual..gone overboard folks!!
This has been going on from the beginning of time...
Skip the little cards and get right to the problem!!
RESPECT FOR ALL..

Unaffiliated

October 31, 2010 - 6:57 am EDT

Law of the Garbage Truck

One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport
We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us.
My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us.
My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly.
So I asked, 'Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!'
This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, 'The Law of the Garbage Truck.'

He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.
As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally.

Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day.
Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets,
so ... Love the people who treat you right.
Pray for the ones who don't.

Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!

Have a garbage-free day!

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