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Owner and chef finds dad at Table 16

Tuesday, December 15, 2009
(Updated 10:32 pm)

GREENSBORO — Graham Heaton keeps the four photos of his young kids taped beside his 10-eye gas stove.

He looks at them at least a half-dozen times a night. There’s Evan, his 2-year-old boy. Evan loves trucks and trains. And his twin daughters, Reagan and Kendall, 9 months old. They love just about everything.

He sees them as much as he can. But as a restaurant owner and a chef, he knows time isn’t his friend. His second home is Table 16, his restaurant, and he’s there countless hours creating what he calls New World Cuisine.

He became half-owner of Table 16 in July 2008. But right before Halloween, he bought out his partner and his old boss, well-known Greensboro chef Ben Roberts, and took on a title he’s thought about forever.

Restaurant owner and chef.

He does everything. Take Monday. As the music of The Avett Brothers played in his tiny kitchen 14 steps long, he took phone calls and waited on his accountant before he opened his doors for another week.

He looks comfortable in his T-shirt and baseball cap. He looks young, too. Like high school graduate young. He gets that a lot.

Tuesday through Saturday, tucked in one of our city’s quirkiest spots — the 500 and 600 blocks of South Elm — Graham parks himself beside the photos of his children and creates something delectable and downright artistic out of scallops, elk or collard greens.

Then he’ll pull away from his sizzling pans and step into Table 16’s dim light.

He’s out talking to his diners, many he knows by first name. Graham will be in his white chef coat, wearing a face you’d think a razor has never touched.

And at least once a night, he’ll get the same question from diners he doesn’t recognize.

“You look so young!’’

“But I feel so old!’’

That’s Graham’s standard response. It’s pretty true.

He does love reading the book, “Big Trucks,’’ to his son, and he does love polishing off a half box of Golden Grahams every night after work as he watches David Letterman.

Plus, he’s made a log cabin out of carrots for kids who have come to eat at Table 16.

But he’s spent nearly half his life working in restaurants — ever since age 16, when he washed dishes for free at a Thai restaurant in Powells Point, a no-stoplight town right before the Outer Banks.

He graduated from culinary school, cooked in some of the country’s best restaurants and embarked on a career where the profit margin is all too often as thin as a wafer.

Yet, he’s making it work, this “chef thing’’ as he calls it.

Graham says his business has more than doubled since taking over Table 16. But you don’t need a spreadsheet to figure that out. Just peek into Table 16 on any given night it’s open.

The place is busy.  Graham’s take? “It’s slammin.’’’

But it’s not easy. Graham is 33, a married father with three young children and 15 people who call him boss. It’s all new.

So, every night, while driving home to Thomasville, Graham calls his business consultant.

His father Don.

There was a time when they didn’t get along. Graham was the rebellious teenager; Don, the by-the-book dad. But today, their relationship is much different.

Don understands the intricacies of business because he ran his own pharmacy for 30 years. He also understands his son, his talent and the possibilities of hardship.

Decades ago, Don’s father loaned him money to expand his pharmacy in the Currituck County town of Grandy and, later, skirt catastrophe when an employee’s embezzlement nearly killed his business.

So, with the memory of his own father fresh in his mind, Don helped his son. He saw that his son had an “unbelievable gift.’’ He also saw something else: Graham had grown up.

Don lent his son the money he needed to buy Table 16. It was nearly the same amount his own father loaned him: about $145,000.

Don says he cherishes their relationship. Graham does, too.

Even past midnight before his big bowl of Golden Grahams when he hangs up with his father, looks down at his cell phone and realizes he has talked to his dad the whole ride home.

“It’s my turn to be good enough to do what my dad did and give (my family) everything they need,’’ Graham says today. “It’s my duty. And if I die half the man my father is, I’ve done very well.’’
 

Contact Jeri Rowe at 373-7374 or jeri.rowe@news-record.com

Accompanying Photos

H. Scott Hoffmann (News & Record)

Photo Caption: Graham Heaton prepares a dish at the Table 16 restaurant in Greensboro.

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GBO_Yoda

December 15, 2009 - 7:41 am EST

I really like this......... I believe........ notably ( "the good stuff" ) they call it ! :)

Rich Smith

devin

December 15, 2009 - 10:46 am EST

Jeri.
Really? Please learn how to write a human interest piece without making me want to vomit. It isn't your subject matter that concerns me- I love Chef Graham and Table 16, and I think they (without a doubt) offer the best dining experience in Greensboro, if not North Carolina.

The real question is this- how is it that you can use the same abysmal writing style to concurrently make a mockery out of journalism, yourself, and your subject of choice? Your awkward phrasing, stilted sentences, and generally barf-worthy sentiments consistently fill your articles, making every fifth line sound as so it's pulled directly from a trailer for an epic adventure film. Please quit slamming together two unrealized sentences in your articles and calling it news.

Or else no one will read the paper. The old News and Record just doesn't pull the readers anymore.

This train doesn't come by the ol' station no more.

If you still don't know what I'm talking about, please watch an episode of "The Simpsons" for me. It's episode 15, from season 5 ("Girly Edition"), and Bart becomes an anchor for the local TV kids news by making an awful human interest series of reports. They're identical to this stocky crud you write.

Considering how often you get the front page of the News and Record, I'm sure you come at a pretty penny to the N+R. Where the hell are the editors? Get Jeri out of here, save some money, and hire some kids fresh out of J-school or something. I'd like to imagine that they'd probably be able to write five of these stories a day for minimum wage.

sladejone11

December 15, 2009 - 2:09 pm EST

lol

matt198199

December 15, 2009 - 2:11 pm EST

I thought it was a great story Jeri....Great Job!!!

kch0088

December 15, 2009 - 2:16 pm EST

Jeri,
Thanks for your article on Table 16. I was there last week for our book club's Christmas dinner and it was marvelous. Graham came out and spoke to us and I was amazed at how young he was. Your article gives me an insight on what a fantastic young man he is and how he got to be that way!
Kathy

Jeri Rowe

December 16, 2009 - 8:28 pm EST

Devin ... or whatever your name is:

Short answer: Turn the page, man.

Longer answer: I've spent nearly 20 years as a journalist in the counties we cover. And I've had to bird-dog most everything, probably some of the very same things you call news. It's usually a battle between stakeholders where the prize can be a court case, a city council decision or the person cops think shot the guy on the corner. Well, the older I get, the more time I spend in this business and the more time I spend with my two kids, I realized I wanted to go after something different with this column gig.

Granted, I'm not as gifted a phrase turner as Danny Westneat in Seattle, Chris Rose in New Orleans or Lorraine Ahearn in Greensboro. And I'm not as funny as I'd like to be. Oh, I wish I was. And I do try. I just do the best I can with what talent I've got, and I try to shine a light in our corners of our community that often unnoticed, unrealized and really forgotten. There, I try to show readers -- even you Devin -- who we are and who we live. You know, what drives us.

It's an insatiable curiousity to find out why. Why did a Guilford College student paint a mural in the cancer ward? Why did that married father of three bike all the way to Mexico? Why did those boys on the verge of adolescence want to know what male enhancement is in the middle of the woods? And why did a UNCG college professor become a legal guardian to an 85-year-old man who can hardly speak. Devin, that's the emotional grist of life.

As for that comment about "pretty penny,'' c'mon, man. None of us at the N&R have had any kind of raise for years, and I know I have to free-lance my backside off to make ends meet. It ain't easy.

If you want to talk further about "stilted sentences'' or "barf-worthy sentiments'' or even "The Simpsons'' (I did see that episode. Damn funny), just call. My number is at the bottom of my column.

And Devin, find some joy in your life. Because right now, after reading your post, you don't seem to have much -- especially if you feel the burning need on a Tuesday morning to hide behind your anonymity and ambush me with comments from other side of the cyberspace wall.

For what it's worth.

Jeri

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