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Mom mourns her daughter’s violent death

Sunday, March 29, 2009
(Updated Tuesday, April 14 - 8:14 am)

TROY — Like a lot of little girls, Kali Martin carried her beloved baby doll “Bob” — short for Barbara — with her always.

When she carelessly left bald-headed Bob out in the rain and the doll was crushed by her uncle’s car, the little girl knew she hadn’t been a very good mama.

“She said, 'Mama, I’m calling social services. I’m calling the police,’ ” Kali’s mother Shannon Martin recalled. “ 'I left Bob out.’ ”

Four-year-old Kali’s life came to a violent end March 18, and police say it was at the hands of her caretakers, Tonya Dobson Williams and Williams’ fiance, Anthony Ravon Duncan.

Williams and Duncan have been charged with first-degree murder in connection with Kali’s death.

Her 30-year-old mother, imprisoned on drug charges, was helpless to prevent Kali’s death by blunt-force trauma.

Interviewed Saturday in a steamy room at the medium-security Southern Correctional Institution in Troy, Martin said Kali was an old soul. And Martin expressed anger toward the people she trusted to care for three of her children.

“Kali was in their care, and they are responsible for my child,” she said. “I want them to suffer the same way they made Kali suffer.”

Martin grew up in the mountains of Dobson and moved to Greensboro last year with three of her four children, Kali, Alasha, 7, and Zion, 2.

The family lived with her cousin Williams, Duncan and Duncan’s three children, Martin said.

Little Kali liked to mother her little brother Zion and had tastes beyond her years, Martin said.

“She loved babies. She loved home-cooked meals,” her mother said. “There was not a morning that baby did not say, 'I want my breakfast and I want coffee.’”

When Martin went to prison last year for drug trafficking, she gave temporary custody of the three children to Williams.

Martin said she had known Williams her whole life. And she had seen Duncan take care of the children by playing with them and feeding them.

“I really trusted them,” she said.

Although Martin said she was aware of drug and alcohol use in the house, she said she could not say whether there was a history of violence or physical abuse.

But Martin said Saturday that police investigators told her that Kali had both old and recent bruises on her body when she died, and that a blunt-force trauma to the head killed her daughter.

Martin said she is eager to get out of prison and take back custody of her two youngest children — now in the care of social services — and her eldest child, who lives with her parents.

“I hope they’re not traumatized,” she said.

Martin said she is ready to be a better mother to them. “I’m just stronger and wiser than I’ve ever been,” she said. “God changed me.”

Prison officials took Martin to see her daughter one last time before the funeral.

“I tried to take her out of the casket. I tried to wake her up. She didn’t wake up,” she said. “I still don’t want her in that casket. But she’s gone.”

 

Contact Amanda Lehmert at 373-7075 or amanda.lehmert@news-record.com

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Amanda Lehmert (News & Record)

Photo Caption: Shannon Martin talks Saturday about her daughter's death.

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kikablue

March 28, 2009 - 6:29 pm EDT

I really feel sorry for this young mother. I hope she can start a new life for her and her children, this is a terrible thing to happen to any one. Keep strong.

Panacea

March 29, 2009 - 11:17 am EDT

I feel very sorry for this little girl and her surviving siblings. I hope the other children can rise above their poor start in life and be someone.

I do feel somewhat sorry for the mother--for any mother who has lost a child. But the mother is not a victim, and needs to own that her own behavior took her away from her kid, and her own choices left her in a house she knew was full of drugs and alcohol. What did she think would happen?

This little girl is the victim here.

gboro84

March 29, 2009 - 10:44 pm EDT

"...feel somewhat sorry for the mother"

--Are you serious?

"the mother is not a victim"

--No, her daughter is. The mother was helpless.

"needs to own that her behavior took her away"

--Gee, you think she doesn't realize that? What are even commenting on this article for?

"...house full of drugs and alcohol"

--I don't think that's exactly what she said, but if you want to put words in a grieving mother's mouth, go right ahead.

"What did she think would happen"

--The article says: "I really trusted them."

Panacea, I hope that you never feel the helplessness and sorrow that this woman and her children will feel everyday for the rest of their lives.

chmotivated

March 29, 2009 - 11:32 am EDT

I'm am so sorry for life that was not allowed to live safely and full, as a mother I am sorry for the mother's loss, we never know the price we have to pay when we hit bottom, I only hope it will propel Ms. Martin to embrace mother hood and parenting in a way that her remaining children will have her full love and her protection. God is the giver of all life and will give you what you need, to do what the children need. You must always seek him and always surround yourself with positive people and positive things. You deserve that and your children deserve that too. You will forever be in my sincere prayers.
~Remember, your children need YOU, & you whole, focused & loving.

BVME

March 29, 2009 - 7:08 pm EDT

SURE KALI'S MOTHER IS IN JAIL,BUT SHE CAN STILL FEEL THE PAIN .MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY AS A WHOLE.

Paul J

March 30, 2009 - 9:26 am EDT

She is where she needs and choose to be.

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