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Father says his son was choked by bus driver

Thursday, December 11, 2008
(Updated Friday, December 12 - 5:26 am)

The father of a student at the center of an assault investigation involving a former Guilford County Schools bus driver says his son was choked and threatened by the driver last Friday.

Brian Bentley, whose son is a 13-year-old Kiser Middle School student, said the incident started when his son complained that the bus driver was talking on her cell phone, and it ended with bruises and a police investigation.

Kathleen Neal, 53, of 3013 Karlingdale Drive, was arrested Monday night and charged with multiple counts of misdemeanor assault, child abuse, communicating threats, false imprisonment, and one felony count of assault by strangulation. Neal was released from the Guilford County jail after posting a $5,000 bond Monday night.

When reached by phone Tuesday, Neal declined to comment.

She no longer works for the school system. School officials said she resigned Friday after 21 years. A school system spokeswoman said the district is launching an internal investigation.

The incident happened about 4 p.m. Friday on bus No. 71 when it stopped on Westover Terrace after leaving Kiser Middle School, according to police and court documents.

According to his son, Bentley said, Neal was talking on her cell phone, and the son told her it was against the rules. The driver pulled over and started yelling at him.

“She called him 'poor white trash’ ... and it escalated from there, and she got up in his face screaming and hollering,” Bentley said.
Bentley said his 14-year-old niece tried to make the driver stop yelling but was shoved to the floor.

“(The driver) grabbed my son by the throat and slammed him against a window,” Bentley said. “She said, 'I’m going to kill you.’ ”
He said his niece tried to intervene again, and she was “backhanded and pushed.”

Bentley said his niece got off the bus along Westover Terrace and flagged down another car to take her back to school, and called him on her cell phone.

In the meantime, the bus returned to Kiser Middle School and students got off. Bentley went to the school, where he said he spent much of Friday evening talking with school officials and authorities.

Police said the incident was recorded on a student’s cell phone, but refused to release the video, citing an ongoing investigation.

Officers have said several students saw the incident unfold and gave written statements as part of the investigation. 

Police have refused to comment on the exact nature of the incident.

However, court records indicate that Neal assaulted a minor by placing her hands around his neck, causing the minor student to feel light-headed, leaving marks around the student’s neck and threatening the student by saying, “I will kill you.”

Arrest warrants also say Neal pushed a minor child in the face and chest and detained a student by not allowing him to leave his seat.

Bentley said both his son and niece were left with marks from the incident, and he asked that their names not be used in this story.

“My son had bruises and marks on his throat and face and had a huge knot on the side of his head where he got slammed against a window,” he said. “My niece had a bruise on her shoulder and an abrasion on the left-hand side of her face.”

Bentley said he previously made two complaints against Neal for incidents in which she screamed at his son and others and called them names.

“There have been several incidents where he got off the bus crying because she berated him,” Bentley said. “(The school system) pretty much said they would take care of it, but nothing ever happened.”

Haley Miller, a Guilford County Schools spokeswoman, said all bus drivers undergo background checks when they are hired. They also are required to complete training for dealing with students by both the school system and the N.C. Department of Motor Vehicles.

Miller said the school system is conducting its own investigation in conjunction with the police investigation.

“We are digging deeper to make sure we do our due diligence in this matter,” Miller said.

Contact Ryan Seals at 373-7077 or ryan.seals@news-record.com

Accompanying Photos

Courtesy of Guilford County Jail

Photo Caption: Kathleen Neal

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snowman

December 11, 2008 - 2:26 pm EST

Mr. Bentley, I hope you sue the Guilford County School System and get every penny you ask for. Our school system is such a joke anyways. I know from experiences with the Guilford County School system if you play by the rules you get left behind. Southern Guilford High School is the biggest joke of the county. If you ever make a complaint about this school or anything to do with this school you are marked. If you do not go down there and kiss a** you are marked. So you go after the school system with all you have and I hope you get enough to send your son and niece to the best schools in the world, because it's
not here in GUILFORD COUNTY.

educatedman

December 15, 2008 - 12:08 am EST

I hope he doesn’t get a penny! As a student who went through the Guilford county school system and one who is now an honors student in college I think the kids got what they deserved. there is no way she just went crazy on some kids for no reason. they had to provoke her. this is the kids side of the story of course they are going to try to play the victim. kids these days are worst and worst every generation. I also graduated from Southern Guilford high school that school is great. as a student who was never in any trouble in any of my public education I say it is up to you the student to stay out of trouble. parent if you were that concerned then maybe you should have pushed harder to have something done those "previous times" when you reported something. i think this whole thing is a joke the kids more then likely got what they deserved.

Ryan Seals

December 11, 2008 - 5:49 pm EST

Parents out there reading this... has your child experienced a problem on a school bus that you've taken action on? How was the response from the school system? Was anything done? Do you feel your child is safe on the bus?

We are getting some interesting feedback on this piece and I'd love to hear from more of you.

Call me or shoot me an e-mail at my contact information at the bottom of the story.

djbp

December 16, 2008 - 12:27 pm EST

Mr. Seals;

I read this story a couple of days ago and my immediate reaction was that the driver was probably verbally provoked but also out of line with her reaction. I have two children in the Guilford County system- one JES and the other at JMS. Over the years, my oldest son while in first grade never made it on the bus and at the time no one was able to locate him due to no radios on the bus system and cell phones not being provided. He was later located in the ACES program which he was NOT enrolled in and with the adult staff being unaware of having an extra student. The following year he was forced to clean his own vomit when he became ill on the bus going to a church based afterschool program- and no I did not send him to school sick that morning he was diagnosed the next day with strep throat. Last year, the AM route he was on was overcrowded with students standing since all of the seats were taken and that situation continued even with numerous phone calls to the transportation department. The most current episode has been when students were talking of the presidential election the bus driver commented saying that no one should vote for President- elect Obama because he was going to be shot and deserved to be. These incidents are only a few of what my son has told me and does not even encompass all that occurs and you are probably wondering why as a parent I continue to allow my children to ride the bus.

First of all, my husband and I both work. Both of my sons have been driven to school in the AM hours during preK- 5th grade years and the PM bus has been to an afterschool care progam that has been either the first or second stop and been adult supervised at the school and afterschool program. Not ideal but an acceptable compromise. My middle school child begged to take the AM bus with his friends and with trepidation my husband and I agreed. We continue to question him and fortunately he is willing to share his day.

I know this may not seem as profound of incidents as the story you have reported but my 8 year struggle with the Guilford County Transportation Department has been one of where the response is apathetic at best and immediately defensive. When there is a concern voiced from a parent the department does not come foward with a solution or even with recognising that you have a valid concern. I am left with feeling frustrated and as if I am wrong with even approaching the issue. Fortunately, I am a stubborn woman.

Good luck, with your investigation and please keep in mind that series of continued ignoring of small issues over time do and will snowball. Children learn life lessons from the "minor" incidents and we as parents and society have the opportunity to coach, compare and contrast to teach the greater lessons. I have learned with the transportation department it is a very good idea to continue to follow up and partner with the principal and of course with my children.

Paul J

December 11, 2008 - 9:45 pm EST

It will all be forgotten because of the fact she did not know better or because he was a white kid.

snowman

December 12, 2008 - 8:55 am EST

Amen brother, Amen

educatedman

December 15, 2008 - 12:15 am EST

Mr. Bentley you are a joke. you cant honestly believe that your kids were being little angels and just got yelled at for no reason. I agree she may not have handled it in the best fashion but what exactly was said? you fail to mention the verbal assault they were probably giving. I am sure they threatened her I am sure they more then likely hit her. I think she was defending herself and just because she is older she is getting the short end of the deal. For someone to be in the system this long and not have any incidents with all the kids she drove and dealt with for this long you would think its YOUR children not her am I right? God will pull this woman through no weapen formed against her shall prosper.

brian bentley

December 15, 2008 - 6:42 pm EST

this is in response to educatedman my children have not been in touble for anything on the bus other than having problems with this bus driver she has been like this to my children since there was an attack on my child by an autistic child where he was punched from behind in the back of his head by said child it was not known to us that he was autistic we didnt want this child suspended from the bus after we found out but he was and from that day on the bus driver was rude disrespectful and called my chilren names the reason nothing has ever been said about her is that no one at the school or schoolboard or the transportatin dept does anything about these complaints that are filed about what goes on the buses i asked on two occasions for them to put a camera on the bus and i was ignored in any case it dont matter she should not have been calling them names or screaming at them nor put her hands on them they have it on tape they have 30 plus students that witnessed it she was the aggressor not the children and has a final thought if this bus driver had been white would you even speculate that it was the kids fault no you wouldnt and this would be all over every news organization in the world but becase she is black the schools and news are trying to sweep it under the rug just like they do with all the gang stuff

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