During my daily morning runs, I see many things I hardly notice from the car:
A pretty, brown-and-white cat that ducks into the manhole in front of my house.
Drivers still blithely running stop signs.
School kids trudging to the bus stop with bulging backpacks that seem weighted with bricks.
The house across the street that has been rendered lifeless and hollow by foreclosure.
There was once was a nice family living there, with two boys and a love of grilling on the deck.
Now there’s a unkempt yard and dark silence.
Neighbors take turns mowing the grass, though they’ve been told they’re not supposed to. But if they don’t, the place becomes overrun with tall weeds, dandelions and wildflowers.
The bank doesn’t seem to care.
A group of young people once pitched a pair of tents and camped overnight in the back yard. I guess they considered it an adventure.
Around the corner is another empty house with a ragged lawn that no one, so far, has bothered to cut.
The windows are plastered with terse, official notices, creating a bulletin board effect.
On the side of the house is a remnant of what used to be, a makeshift plywood booth with a hand-painted sign in big black letters across the top: “Alex’s Lemonade Stand.”
Wonder where Alex is now.
Most of the Amendment One signs are gone now, except for a few defiant light-blue ones against.
In the beginning, those signs far outnumbered their dark-blue rivals for the amendment, which passed Tuesday, and which mandates constitutionally that North Carolina recognizes marriage only between “one man and one woman.”
But over time, as more and more signs sprouted, the “pro” signs gained ground. Neighbors opposed neighbors. I wondered whether they talked about it while trimming hedges or picking up the mail.