My column today:
Americans are learning plenty about Sarah Palin's family. The Republican vice presidential candidate gave up personal privacy when she accepted John McCain's offer to join his ticket.
Her decision to carry to term a baby with Down syndrome rather than have an abortion, and now her unmarried teenage daughter's pregnancy, are topics of conversation not only within the Palin household but in the national media and among millions of Americans. Her business is our business.
That just goes with the territory for someone who wants to become one of our nation's top leaders.
Shift to a different territory, however, and the rules seem to change — probably for the better.
How much do North Carolinians know about the families of their top elected officials?
Very little. And, in this state at least, the public doesn't seem to want to know more. ...There's clearly a greater willingness to grant a zone of privacy on the part of the people and the media.
Gov. Mike Easley's family, for example, garnered hardly any publicity until recently, when first lady Mary Easley's European travels and big pay raise at N.C. State were reported. The issues were newsworthy only because they involved public funds and, in the case of her job at State, possible favoritism.
Almost never in the news is the Easleys' son, Michael Jr., a law student at Carolina. The only child of the state's governor for the past eight years is virtually unknown to most North Carolinians. His public appearances are so rare, in fact, that The News & Observer of Raleigh made a special note of it when he joined his father for a Hillary Clinton campaign event in High Point before the primary in May.
Attention is focusing now on the major candidates for Easley's job, Democrat Bev Perdue and Republican Pat McCrory. What about their families?
Perdue's husband, Bob Eaves, was brought up during the primary campaign by Democratic opponent Richard Moore, who charged that ball caps carrying Confederate emblems are sold in Georgia convenience stores owned by the Eaves family. Moore didn't score any points with that lukewarm potato.
Perdue has two grown sons from a previous marriage and one granddaughter. Their personal lives are completely outside the realm of public interest.
McCrory's wife, Ann, doesn't have a public role in his campaign, and they have no children.
Everyone knows Sen. Elizabeth Dole's husband. Bob Dole was a longtime senator from Kansas and the Republican presidential candidate in 1996 and vice presidential candidate in 1976. She has no children.
North Carolina's other senator, Richard Burr, and wife, Brooke, have two sons. Their names and ages aren't given in Burr's biography on his Senate Web site, and no one's clamoring for the information.
A North Carolina politician who's more open about her family is Greensboro's Kay Hagan, the Democratic candidate for Dole's Senate seat. Her husband, Chip, and three grown children, Jeannette, Tilden and Carrie, have been campaigning with and for her across the state.
Whether any North Carolina politician would be as open about family as Sarah Palin, however, is doubtful. The cone of privacy is thicker here. It might crack in a case of criminal behavior or some other scandal that thrust a family member into the news, but a teenage daughter's pregnancy likely would remain a protected family matter. Rightfully so. It's hard to think of circumstances that would bring such a personal development to public attention.
Sarah Palin may be breaking new ground by announcing her daughter's pregnancy to the national media. In part, doing so was a response to rumors spread by political opponents that 17-year-old Bristol Palin, not Sarah, is the real mother of infant Trig, and that Sarah has been covering up for her daughter. Bristol's current pregnancy makes that impossible.
But news would get out, anyway, especially in the Palins' small Alaska hometown. Bristol's pregnancy apparently was known there already, as was the identity of her 17-year-old boyfriend. Sarah Palin and her husband, Todd, decided to get it all out in the open and make it clear that they love and support their daughter. Family values prevail.
Most North Carolina politicians say they stand for family values, too. When it comes to their own families, though, they prefer privacy.
North Carolina voters and media seem perfectly fine with that.
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