A conversation with my neighbor requires shouting, gestures and facial expressions. He's almost deaf and very frustrated.
In his upper 80s, he's a veteran of World War II. He was a seaman on an armed transport ship that saw action in the Pacific Theater, including the invasion of Okinawa.
His battle station was a deck directly below the ship's four-inch guns. "After they were fired, you couldn't hear someone talking to you for a couple of minutes," he told me.
He's been fitted with hearing aids from the VA, but they don't help much.
My father, who died in 2001, had lost most of his hearing. He worked on the flight deck of an aircraft carrier during his Navy service.
My father-in-law, who died in 2009, was an Army Air Corps airplane engine mechanic during the war.
None of these men had adequate protection from the extreme noise they were exposed to routinely in serving their country.
Although no official diagnosis ever said so, it's easy for me to believe they sustained auditory damage as young men that eventually robbed them of their hearing.
Well over a million vets are living with significant hearing loss or other auditory conditions today, according to this October 2011 article in The Hearing Journal.
The VA needs to diagnose all cases of hearing loss among veterans and do what it can to help.
And we all need to recognize that service to country, in addition to all the other sacrifices required, has consigned many of our veterans to a silent old age.
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